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I'm a new mom and nickmom is the only thing that keeps me sane. they have espn for sports, bet, spike, etc. mickmom comes on after 10 when your kids SHOULD be in bed. why is it so terrible to have something for mothers for once?

Asked by jackisamom

I believe you are referencing this post from last year because I haven’t given NickMom a thought since then. Since you asked, though, here are my thoughts, which really haven’t changed:

I’m glad you dig NickMom. My wife does, too, as do a shit-load of others. I don’t have the numbers, but if it didn’t have a substantial viewership, it’d already be off the air.

It’s cool that it comes on at 10 p.m. in your area. In my area (and others), it comes on at 7 p.m., which sucks ass because that is primetime for most toddlers and preschoolers. So, when they kicked off NickMom relatively unannounced, my boys got to see a mom comedian start her act by saying how all parents actually hate their kids. 

First of all, not cool. Second of all, not funny (which, to me, is a worse offense). My wife who was getting dinner ready heard this and quickly changed the channel.

Now, you put “should” in all caps. That tells me you know not all kids stay in bed when they’re put down. As a new mom, I’m sure you have spent many sleepless nights, calming a crying baby at all hours. I’m not suggesting parents set their newborn in front of the TV, but when my preschoolers are sick and wake up from aches or fever or vomiting, Nick Jr. is one of the arrows in my quiver. Parents dealing with sick kids who wake up at 10 p.m. in your area don’t have that option any more.

That gets to my problem with NickMom: Got a show for moms with racy jokes and salty language? Great. Why did they put it on a channel for children?

Viacom, which owns Nickelodeon, has hundreds of channels to choose from. Okay, I know the show wasn’t pitched to Viacom—that’s not how TV works. But, it was pitched to Nickelodeon, which has a handful of better channels from which to choose. Nick at Nite, which long ago jettisoned the formula of airing solely reruns from previous decades, would have been perfect.

And though this has nothing to do with the programming, the launch of NickMom coincided with the show’s website publishing a humorous inforgraphic that clearly ripped off one by How To Be A Dad. And when confronted with it, they apologized, but then simply swept it under the rug.

Happy anniversary! How did you meet?

Asked by mrstu

Thanks!

We both worked at the same newspaper. She was the Associate Art Director and I was the Arts & Entertainment Editor. We had unspoken crushes on each other, then the Managing Editor set us up on a date.

We’ve been together ever since.

How did you decide/agree to leave the boys hair longer? I buzzed my son's last summer but he refuses now (2yrs), so I think he's going to be shaggy and too hot this summer. (I love the look of it but I feel sorry when it gets all matted/sweaty)

Asked by mrstu

My wife and I have the same aesthetic, so the boys have just grown up with our clothes, hair, music, et al. (Wyatt used to have really long hair, but it was annoying him, so we cut it a bit shorter.)

I joke a lot on Tumblr but I did want to tell you with all seriousness how much I'm enjoying your fiction series. Your talent as a writer never ceases to amaze. Many kudos on your latest work.

Asked by electradaddy

Thanks, man!

There are a few more installments on the way before we reach the conclusion. I can’t say for sure because I’m kind-of editing on the fly a story I wrote years ago.

(By the way, I’ve got a post scheduled to fire off in an hour that you may dig.)

"Wyatt has been incredibly polite lately. He says “thank you” and “please” regularly without being asked…I think he’s plotting something." -- I'm so happy to see that I'm not the only one who suspects that my kid is plotting something (probably bad). I think she may have been a cat in a previous life.

Asked by carminepink

Yeah, sometimes I think I’m raising two Bond villains.